Authors
Joshua Nordman
Published in
Teaching and learning in medicine. Pages 1-3. Jul 05, 2026. Epub Jul 05, 2026.
Abstract
During my first year as a resident physician, I was confronted with the collision of physician identity and personal loss after the sudden death of my father. This essay presents first-hand experiences and examines how doctoring roles and newly developed clinical habits can be misapplied to personal grief. What is discovered is that these misapplications can both distort the grief process and erode self- and patient-level compassion. In particular, I reveal how existing frameworks exclusively prepare trainees for professional grief and prioritize professional composure over authentic mourning. For example, I recall an initial guilt-laden impulse to medicalize and restrain. Drawing on narrative reflection, clinical encounters, and engagement with grief literature and religious practice, the essay traces my evolving understanding of my identities. As both doctor and son, my two roles coexist in an intimate experience of loss. It is clear that when left unexamined, obstinate persistence in the doctoring role-searching for signs, explanations, or missed interventions-risks contorting grief into a problem to solve rather than a reality to humanely endure and from which to grow. Ultimately, I argue that medical education must intentionally support trainees' personal grief, not only for their own well-being but to preserve the empathy and humanity essential to patient care.
PMID:
42402164
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